August 18, 2005

Where are the honest men?

According to a friend - a MALE friend- they went the way of the parachute pants.

We were discussing my need for an HONEST man. A man who doesn't play games, doesn't double talk, doesn't live in a fantasy world and who knows who HE is and what he wants.
Is that so hard?
My friend says that basically men are idiots and I should just get use to it.

Our IM conversation follows:

male friend : dont punish him for being an idiot
male friend : if you use that as a criterion, youre doomed to die alone
me: lol
male friend : although i doubt he'd make a very good dom
me: i'm not looking for a dom
me: just someone honest

male friend : you'll have better luck finding a dom

Am I doomed?

Posted by De at August 18, 2005 01:38 PM | TrackBack
Comments

Most people are idiots. It's not strictly a male thing (although we do have our fair share). I see disingenuous people on both sides. Just be patient and a little flexible. (not physically, although that can help too)

Posted by: Binx at August 18, 2005 03:32 PM

Definitely don't punish him for being an idiot.

Posted by: tinyhands at August 18, 2005 09:45 PM

I'm pretty bendy. ;)

Posted by: DeAnna at August 19, 2005 02:33 PM

Any woman who goes through life saying that men are idiots is bound to end up with the biggest one she meets, because she deserves him, and he deserves her for being enough of an idiot to have anything to do with her.
You will never have an honest man, because you don't deserve one. Honest men, good men, don't waste time on bitter, bitchy shrews who demean them. You will find plenty of stupid men, and many that only want to play you as long as it suits their fancy. You will be the bottle of water in the back pocket. And you deserve it.
I've been married 12 years, to a good woman who appreciates a good man. The girl I dated before I met my wife is still unmarried 15 years later; she's a 35 year old spinster and will never find a man because she's a selfish bitch.

Posted by: An Honest Man at August 19, 2005 08:59 PM

Dear Honest Man,
Congratulations. I'm glad you are an honest man. However, I am sorry that your reading comprehension skills and sense of humor seem to be dead or also gone the way of the parachute pants.
I never called men idiots. My MALE friend did...in jest.
I should also add that in my quest for a man, I'm searching for honesty AND a sense of humor.
Thanks for stopping by.

Posted by: DeAnna at August 19, 2005 09:43 PM

Burn!

That was sweet. Hehe.

Posted by: Jim at August 31, 2005 05:31 AM

All men ARE idiots!!!! They are the laziest species on the face of the earth!!! Women do everything, from cooking to cleaning to washing everyone in the whole damn houses' underwear. They never get to sit down like a freakin' lazy ass man. They never get to sit on their ass all day long with the remote control glued to their hand. It must be nice. And they wonder why we don't feel like giving them a piece of ass everytime we turn around.

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